Secondhand News

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

July 21, 2010

Mom's surgery went great. Took about an hour. The chest x-ray showed that the port was placed correctly and she should be able to start using it for her next treatment. She's feeling alright and is supposed to be taking a nap, but keeps finding other things to do. We'll follow-up with Dr. Hazard in 2 weeks, but other than that, there isn't much else to report. Thanks for all your prayers and encouragement!

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

July 20, 2010

We got the call this afternoon that Mom's procedure will be scheduled for tomorrow at 11:30. It should only take a couple hours and she will be able to come home the same day. We would certainly appreciate an interest in your prayers tomorrow. She's well into this round of chemo, and has been getting pretty tired. The neuropsychologist would like her to start getting more exercise, so I've been trying to work her a little bit more. We're also working on some fine motor skills on her left side to get her stronger on that side. Today she picked up coins and put them in a piggy bank while Dad and I rewired some outlets. Then she took a nap while we filled a hole in the kitchen. It's been really hot and humid here while we're waiting for some thunderstorms. The heat is really hard on Mom. She's been enjoying the air conditioning!

Moving day is tentatively set for Saturday! I'm excited to get some furniture moved in and situated! Hopefully we'll be able to get the upstairs bathroom finished up and that will be the last thing that is essential before I start staying there. Football practice starts August 2nd, so my summer is practically over. It's been a busy couple months with all the home improvements. Hopefully I'll be able to get things organized and have you all over for a housewarming cookout before summer is over!


Friday, July 16, 2010

July 16, 2010

We had an appointment with Dr. Torres this morning before Mom's treatment. He reviewed the MRI with us and it shows that the tumor is not progressing and that it may even be getting smaller. We compared May's MRI with yesterday's and it does certainly appear that the lesions are shrinking. Mom's strength is getting better, but there are still deficits on the left side, so she will start physical therapy to work on that. We're very excited with the news today! Thank you all for your prayers!

Thursday, July 15, 2010

July 15, 2010

Just a quick update before I go to bed. Mom and I met with Dr. Hazard and Dr. Dixon on Monday to arrange to have a port put in. Her surgery is scheduled for next Wednesday. It's just a minor procedure where a line will be inserted into a large blood vessel under her collarbone. The needle sticks were getting more and more difficult and the bruising on her arms were getting bad, so she finally decided to get the port.

Tomorrow we'll meet with Dr. Torres to get the results of the MRI she had this morning. We've had a very busy summer, so far. Every spare minute I'm trying to get things ready at my house so I can move in. Today Dad and I got all the grout down in the kitchen, entryway, closet, and bathroom. Thanks to Lana and her kids for their help in the pre-grouting stage. Hunter also discovered that demolition was exciting and he had a good time tearing tile off the upstairs bathroom walls. That's the next project and seeing that it's a much smaller room, I'm hoping to get it finished in just a couple days. Mom seems to be feeling better in the last couple days. Where she had been spending much of the time napping while Dad and I worked, she's done a little helping and some more supervising, but awake supervising instead of sleeping supervising.

Justin was home on Wednesday to help lay tile. He spent the night, so we all got to spend some time with him while he was here. There isn't much else to report. Aside from laying tile in the kitchen, there hasn't been much else going on at the house either. I'm hoping to get the upstairs bathroom finished next week and then hopefully set a move-in date.

I will provide an update on Wednesday sometime after Mom's home from he port surgery.

Monday, July 05, 2010

July 5, 2010

Happy Independence Day! We had a busy weekend filled with cookouts, fireworks, movies, family, and friends. On Friday we met with Dr. Torres before infusion. The nurses have been having a difficult time getting Mom's IVs to take for the treatments so she's ready to have a port put in. We've spoken with Dr. Torres about this and he believes it is a good idea, as well. Hopefully, we'll get an appointment with the surgeon soon to get things moving. Our appointment with Dr. Torres was wonderful, as usual. He's an amazing man and an amazing doctor. He sat down and visited with us briefly and asked about the trip to UPMC. We asked questions and he took the time to answer them all thoroughly. Each time we meet with him I like him more. During the appointment he told us that he prays that he will know the right things to do and find the correct answers in regards to Mom's care. I find it very comforting to know that we have a doctor who not only prays for guidance, but is willing to admit it to his patient. We have been blessed in having such a kind and knowledgeable doctor. Friday's treatment went just fine but Mom has been very tired since then. She missed VBS on Friday to rest and has had a couple naps here and there since then.

Sunday evening our church had a picnic and Becky & Gary Benson were there. Becky was diagnosed with leukemia in June just before Mom and has been undergoing treatments, as well. In December she has a bone marrow transplant and told that the graft took 100%. She is doing very well and looked wonderful last night. It was nice to talk with her and for her and Mom to share their stories. It seems we're building a little support group within our community and everyone can contribute to help pull someone else through a similar situation. I'm sure it's comforting to talk with someone else who truly understands what you are going through and I'm thankful that Mom has people who can relate on levels that the rest of us cannot.

We're getting ready to make a trip to Clarksburg today to meet up with Justin and Allison. It's always nice to get to spend time with them. The time we've shared together since Mom's diagnosis a year ago has become more meaningful. We don't get to see them as often as we'd like, but we all certainly make a greater effort in making time to get together whenever we can. I was talking with a friend recently while painting my bedroom and we were discussing how our family has really "lived" each moment the past year. She mentioned that so often we just let our days or years pass by and do not take the time to really be thankful for what we have. I must say that in the last year, amongst hard times and sadness, we have been blessed with good times and laughter. Things that may otherwise have gone unnoticed, we recognized and were grateful for. I encourage each of you to reflect each day on the blessings that you've been given and to be thankful for them. Be gracious to your friends and co-workers. Cherish the time you have with your family. Make spending time with friends a priority. Thank God every day for another opportunity to be a better person.